I posted the following as an answer to Ken Anderson in this thread at CCK08 http://ltc.umanitoba.ca/moodle/mod/forum/discuss.php?d=1060#p6572
What I meant by seeing power as relational was that:
rather than describing power relations between A and B (I was thinking people here) as A has power over B
we could describe these relations by saying how each of A and [...]